Why Are Our Teachers Obsessed With Sex?

Definitely Not Decaf with Ira Pickett
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Why Are So Many Teachers Abusing Children?

All you have to do is Google “teacher busted for having sex with student”  and you will find over 197 million results pointing you to thousands of stories from around the nation and the world reporting cases of teachers who have violated the trust and integrity of their position by having inappropriate relationships with their students. 

Recently, national headlines have focused on the newest cases uncovered last month at Miramonte Elementary School in the Los Angeles Unified School District, where 61-year-old Mark Berndt has been accused of taking ‘bondage style’ photo’s of students with cockroaches on their faces.  This story comes on the heels of countless other similarly disgusting stories around the nation including that of former Penn State University Assistant coach Jerry Sandusky who last fall was accused of 40 counts of sex crimes against young boys.

While both of these individual cases involved male adults accused of the abuse, female abusers have also continued to rear their ugly heads in the media in recent years with hundreds of cases going back to the highly publicized 2004 Debra Lafave case that made national headlines.  Who could forget when former Greco Middle School teacher (Temple Terrace) and University of South Florida graduate Lafave plead guilty to Lewd and Lascivious Battery after charges arose resulting from her alleged encounters with a 14-year-old student.  It was alleged that the then-married Lafave had sex with the minor in her classroom, inside her car and at her home throughout the summer of 2004.

Over the past several decades, we have witnessed child sex abuse scandals that have rocked our nation in an unfathomable way. 

Is what we are seeing in the past 10 years with countless teachers engaging in illegal sexual acts simply the next round of awareness after shocking evidence was uncovered alleging abuse in the Boy Scouts and Catholic Church?  It certainly appears that way, only it may prove to be actually worse.

*Prior to 1994, there were over 2,000 cases of reported abuse by scout leaders within the Boy Scouts Of America. 

*According to the John Jay Report, there were 10,667 allegations against 4,392 priests accused of engaging in sexual abuse with minors between 1950-2004.

In 2007, an Associated Press investigation reported in USA Today, that between the period of 2001 and 2005 there were 2,625 cases of educator sexual misconduct that resulted in license suspension, revocation, denial, surrender or “other punishments”.  Further, according to “Educator Sexual Misconduct: A Synthesis of Existing Literature,” written by Charol Shakeshaft of Hofstra University,  an even more startling estimate of 6 to 10 percent of K through 11 public school students will be victims of sexual abuse or harassment before graduation.  This would represent an estimated 4 to 5 million sexually abused U. S. Public School students. 
While national statistics appear to indicate a reduction in the total number of child sexual abuse cases between 1993 and 2006, the totals are seriously impacted by an approximate 70% of cases that go un-reported.  With this in mind, it may be that abuse cases have not increased in recent years, but reporting of such cases has increased due to better awareness, education and reporting procedures. 
Furthermore,  it appears that we need to be more concerned about people we know abusing our children than we do about a stranger hiding behind a tree at the park.

So, the real questions is, whom can we trust to care for, educate, and protect our children?

Sadly, the answer appears to be that we can trust no-one. 

According to the National Center for Victims of Crimes (http://www.ncvc.org) the common denominator among child victims is that they frequently know and trust their abusers. Family members, teachers, coaches, pastors, and caregivers are all typically given access to children with a certain level of unchecked authority as they develop close relationships with the children for appropriate or inappropriate purposes. 

What can we do? 

Get informed. Locally in the Tampa Bay Area there are dozens of organizations providing resources on how to educate children, assess warning signs of abuse and seek treatment in the event that abuse has occurred.  One such resource is the Crisis Center of Tampa Bay (http://www.crisiscenter.com) .  Additionally,  churches and organizations can utilize companies such as Protect My Ministry (http://www.protectmyministry.com) of Lutz, Florida which provide screening and background checks of potential ministry members and volunteers, as well as education and online resources to assist churches in protecting children from potential predators.

Parents should take the time beginning at a young age to develop and nurture an open line of communication with their children, providing them with sample scenarios’ of situations, conversations and acts that are inappropriate and that should be brought to your attention.  Acts of sexual abuse can be extremely shameful for even the most well-adjusted child, so open communication is absolutely key in identifying it with any child.

Lastly, recognize that where there is smoke, there is fire.  If you have a ‘gut’ feeling that something is going on with someone you know, whether it be an adult who you think may be abusing a child, or a child you think may be being abused, your instincts may be right. Do something. Talk to someone who can appropriately investigate your concerns, because it is NEVER too late to make a difference in the life of a child.

  • Observer

    Are you f%*king crazy; stupid; naive; or all of the above? The entire US — if not the world — is sex obsessed. It has been a virtual epidemic for eons. Probably 99.99999 percent of the people in this country thinks about, dreams about or engages in sex 24/7.

    Last I checked America’s teachers were still considered part of the population so how such a question — even a rhetorical one — can be asked seems the height of stupidity to me. Now, how about a similar story re writers like you; scientists, nurses; doctors, lawyers; bankers; bakers; truck drivers; social workers; candlestick makers, blah, blah, blah …

    • Rowdy Boots


      There are many of us who actually work for a living and do not have 99.999999999 percent of our time to do what you think we do.


  • Susan

    I know many people who don’t think of sex 24/7. Frankly I find that obcessive. Since the average married couple has sex 3 times a week or less, I find it hard to believe that they are thinking of sex that much.

    There is a big difference in having high sex drive and having the urge to have sex with children. Plus, what ever happen to restrain?

    If someone things of sex 24/7 I believe they are a sexual deviant. They are the type of deviants we should screen for and not allow to work with children. High sex drives like that who desire helpless children are sick corrupt people who care for no one except their own desires. They are called sociopaths. Sociopaths are warped personalities, defective. We need to screen for these types of people and make sure they do NOT teach. Sociopaths care only for themselves and their own needs, wants and desires. It is a personality defect..

  • Rich Lehmann

    I think the better question is Why do the teachers union makes it so hard to fire the perverts?


    Please stop these pathetic and exploitative stories.

    Americans all know that THE PUBLIC SCHOOL SYSTEM IS A FAILURE…

    Many are too lazy or busy to Home School.

    End Public Schools–give us our money back and let us choose our teachers.


  • J. Mach

    If people in America have kids and they end up in school systems that under perform or through accretion of a political agenda, develop a social engineering agenda rather than focus on scholastic material then, it’s time for those citizens to throw off the mantra of being “good Citizens”. Start by gathering a 25% target of residents in each town with kids to with hold paying property taxes until: 1 The Federal Government agree to end unionism in schools. 2. Curriculum’s are reviewed for redeeming scholarly content. 3. Teachers or so called teachers are psychologically tested in addition to passing subjective testing within their own subject matter. No Waivers. No exceptions.

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